Toughest Man

The was a Sherman Alexi story we had to read a while ago about the toughest man. The big part of the discussion led into homosexuality.
Part of it was that how come it's not fair that a girl can kiss a girl, and it's not gay, but when a guy kisses a guy it's gay. The biggest reason for this instance is that girls kissing girls has started to become a common occurance. Who's to blame, probably the male scociety, but the females weren't tortured till the point of giving in. never the less, females are allowed to explore a little quicker than guys.
The difference in this story is that it was two guys having anal sex. I think that's a different situation. If two girls have sex, i would call them gay. You can't compare kissing to sex. They had sex, they were both guys, they are therefore gay. end of discussion.